So after a significant amount of drink for one person, (note to self, AGAIN, I definatley can not drink like I am at uni still), my friend is driving, drops me off at home, at which point I am absolutley fine and then something just flipped…. this was until two weeks ago…… at which point I took which felt like a 1000 steps back.Ī Thursday night, a few drinks and let’s all be honest we have all done silly things when we have had a few to drink, however this one I don’t regret as I am not sure I would of recieved his confession otherwise. When I discovered the affair it was shocking and heartbreaking, and even more so because, the ex continued to lie about the affair and deny it completely…. I spend the first half of this year building myself back up and accepting that it was my decision and I had dealt with it.
The first part of this year, I moved back in with my Dad and left my marital home, I met up with my ex a couple of times as I felt I had to try and explain things, he seemed not to understand how we ended up here, which is why I carried the guilt – ironic now considering! Now, let me be clear I am not saying our marriage was perfect and I am not saying by any means I was the perfect wife, however I will not take responsibility for him having an affair. And all along he was the one having the affair. the ex kept saying ‘ you have changed’, ‘I don’t understand why this has happened’. When my marriage came to an end at the end of last year, I felt horrendously guilty and felt that it was my fault….
Finding out your husband has been having an affair via Facebook is one thing but hearing him confess…….
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